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‘I get in my head, like “what am I doing, this is a guy, and I’m very straight.” At this point, he notices that I’m kind of tearing at the label of my water bottle and asks me with a smile if I’m nervous. it was literally like something had awakened in me all at once. I realize as we’re talking further that I’m…kind of trying to impress him? All of a sudden I care about his opinion of me, and I’m building up myself up a little bit subtley. I suddenly found myself thinking “oh, this guy is pretty good looking” and then all of a sudden I realize I’m talking to a very handsome man who seems to be interested in me, and I get nervous. And in a moment things were just different. ‘I felt it like a jolt of electricity through my body. We shake hands, and he gives me the most flirtatious eye contact I have ever had. He finally gives me his name, and I give him mine. He’s actually pretty easy to talk to, and we’re making each other laugh, so I’m enjoying the conversation. ‘I ask him about his dancing, he asks me about work. Now, this guy was fairly effeminate so I figured he was probably chatting me up because he was interested, but he wasn’t being flirty and I love talking to people, so I didn’t want to throw out a “by the way I’m straight.” He asks if he can take the seat next to me, and I say of course. We talk about where we’re taking the train to (I’m going home, he’s going to dance practice). ‘He asks me about the article, and we talk about it for a few minutes. I tell him my trick is to load up an interesting article on my phone before coming down, and I read that while waiting. The train was delayed, and he mentions he hates waiting more than a few minutes because there’s no cell service underground. ‘Anyway, today I’m sitting and waiting for the metro to go home from work and this guy sits down next to me. I’ve slept with a few women since the break up, been on a dozen dates or so. I’m trying not to get into anything new, and just enjoy my time in the city as a single guy for the first time as an adult. ‘I’ve been in a relationship for the last five years, but we broke up over the summer. I haven’t really wondered what it’s like to experiment with a man before, although like everyone I’ve run it through my mind a couple times to see how it feels. My porn is almost exclusively lesbian/heterosexual.
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I’m a traditionally heterosexual guy, only dated and slept with women. He wrote: ‘I don’t know where exactly to post this. Reddit user Wellhowaboutthat13 hoped to get off his chest about a chance meeting with a guy at a train station. A straight guy has asked for help as even though he thought he was heterosexual for 25 years, he just accepted a date with a gay man.